Family money: gift or loan?

The bottom line

If parents are helping, decide whether it is a gift or a loan and put it in writing before the bank asks.

Money from parents or family is common and welcome, but the bank will want to know whether it is a gift, which does not have to be repaid, or a loan, which affects your borrowing. The answer also matters if a relationship ends, because a gift to one partner can become shared property.

A deed of gift or a deed of acknowledgement of debt is a short document that records the arrangement. It protects the parents as much as it protects you.

Check yourself

What document records money from parents that does not need repaying?
A deed of gift.
What document records money from parents that is a loan?
A deed of acknowledgement of debt.
Why does the bank care whether it is a gift or a loan?
A loan is a liability that affects how much you can borrow.
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